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The 10 Commandments of Laundry

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / January 10, 2017

I have yelled, I have begged and pleaded, I have demonstrated and reminded and prayed. And yet, the people I live with continue to live in sin in the area of all things laundry. And so, I have gone to the mountain (OK, my closet hideout) and am coming down with these in hand. The…

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The Beam in my Eye

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 11, 2016

If my Facebook newsfeed is indicative of our hearts my friends, then today I’m turning to the Bible. Not just any part, but a part that always makes me feel squirmy. In the last few days I have been been feeling the squirm more than ever. And the squirm often means I might be judging others and…

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My Biggest Mothering Mistake (so far)

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 7, 2016

I used to believe being a good mom meant you never ran out of those little dishwasher pod things. Or laundry soap. Or toilet paper. Or diapers. Your house was always company ready and homemade snacks were a daily occurrence. Keeping track of the things and then using the things to clean and organize the…

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Parent.co Follow up: Writer of Viral Minecraft Sex Mod Article Tells the Rest of Her Story

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / October 31, 2016

Parent.co did a follow up to my Minecraft piece. So thankful to get a chance to say a little more! Parent.co recently published a first-person account of one mom’s experience discovering the existence of sex mods for Minecraft. To date, the post has been shared over 129,000 times. Nowhere in the piece did the writer, Amy Betters-Midtvedt,…

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Everything Changed the Day I Found Out Minecraft Has a Sex Mod

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / October 22, 2016

Amy is sharing her latest technology debacle over at Parent.co , one of our all time favorite sites! You guys, take a minute google Minecraft + sex mod. I’ll wait. OK, did your brain explode too? Because when I found out that this was a thing, not only did my brain explode, but my heart did as…

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Life Lesson from the Sidelines

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / October 10, 2016

He is so handsome, this son of mine. I just love to watch him, and when he catches me I have a hard time being cool about it. He pretends to be annoyed, “Mooommmmmm,” he says when I tell him for the 1,000 time how I am so happy he is my boy. But I…

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5 Ways Teenage Romance was Better in the 80’s & 90’s

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 19, 2016

Teenage romance…there’s nothing like it. It is the stuff dreams are made of and romance in the 80’s and 90’s was nothing if not dreamy. {Disclaimer: my romantic experiences were pretty limited growing up, but my dreams were big. I mostly longed for my objects of affection from afar, waited for my life to unfold…

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To the Gentleman Talking About “Lazy Teachers”, This Is What I Really Wanted to Say to You

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 2, 2016

Dear Gentleman I overheard talking about “those lazy teachers”, I sat still while you talked to those around you about “lazy teachers”. I bit my tongue as the room swam before my eyes. I actually experienced seeing red when I heard you follow it up with the old gem, “It must be nice to only work…

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A Last Minute Guide for Detoxing from Summer and Getting Ready for the School Year

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / August 24, 2016

So here we are…summer is winding up despite my efforts to cling to it by my fingernails. To give you an idea about how we approach summer here, picture one big house party. The rowdy kind where chips get ground into the carpet and you are the hostess but there are people walking through your house…

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A Behind the Scenes Expose: The Real Story Behind that Perfect Family Photo

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / August 3, 2016

This was my profile picture for about 5 months:   Pretty impressive right? Looks like everything is unicorns and rainbows around this joint. Sweet kids. Perfect night. Zero fighting. But I’m here today to blow the lid off that nonsense. Behold: my confession on what goes into getting that beautiful, perfect family shot. Hold onto…

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