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The thing no one thinks about when launching your bigs off to school…

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 23, 2022

When my oldest was a freshman one of her friends almost died at a party. She actually had to perform CPR while waiting for the ambulance. At the end of the night she found herself in the ER with her friend, a dead cell phone and her friend’s phone but no knowledge of his parents…

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You Are Enough

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 20, 2022

If tonight you are feeling discouraged. And like the demands of the world are just too much. If you’re feeling like you don’t measure up. And everyone else seems to be killing it at all the things, their houses are cleaner, their children are more polite and certainly don’t fight over the remote and their…

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Gift Guide for the Teenage Boy (straight from their lips to this list!)

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 18, 2022

OK, you asked for it, the gift guide for the teenage boy! I asked them, and they delivered. Also how cute are they (please note, the smaller boy contributed to his own gift guide for tweens also coming soon)   The older boy said these gifts will “spark joy” in any boy either because they…

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Migraine Free Holiday!

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 17, 2022

OK, so who wants a migraine free holiday season? Do I have another migraine fighting tip for you! I am always looking for something that is going to help us fight our migraines around this joint. And during the holidays, it seems we are all more prone to them. It can’t be all the eating…

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12 Gifts Your Teenage Girls Want This Holiday Season

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 5, 2022

I present you with 12 gifts your teenage girl wants this holiday season! How do I know these are gifts your teenage girls most likely want? Because this list is curated from things my girls actually asked for or ordered for themselves from Amazon. Sooooo….these should knock it out of the park! My heart melted…

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Holiday Help

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 4, 2022

  We are about to enter the crazy season known as THE HOLIDAYS. I don’t know about you, but I love to make all the things and do all the things but I can sometimes get super overwhelmed. The worst days for me are when I am baking all day, finally clean up the giant…

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Lost and Found No More

Lost and Found No More…

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / July 23, 2022

Have you all seen the disaster that is the lost and found at your kid’s school? Ours is legit overflowing by day two with all the things and by December there are enough items to clothe my kid and 10 others, not to mention the 25 water bottles, all the pairs of prescription glasses, the…

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4 Things Our High School Kids Need to Hear As They Graduate

4 Things Our High School Kids Need to Hear As They Graduate

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / May 23, 2022

As I watch my sweet almost grown babies, I can see my time with them growing shorter. I have so much left to say, but there are just a few things I think they need to hear as they take those first tentative steps into adulthood. The end of high school is a whole thing…

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You’ve Got This My Friends, I Wish I Would Have Known I Did Too

You’ve Got This My Friends, I Wish I Would Have Known I Did Too

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / April 23, 2022

I remember sitting on the floor, legs crossed watching our babies play. We were all so tired, so in love with these babies, trying so hard to figure out these lives we were now in that we couldn’t have dreamed of a year ago. We were moms. And we were figuring it out together. As…

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The Ghost of my LIttles Followed me Through Target Today

The Ghost of my LIttles Followed Me Through Target Today

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / April 23, 2022

The ghosts of my littles shopped with me today at Target. They were somehow there at every turn. I wandered the aisles and all at once the princess dresses brought me to tears. Because the spirits of my little girls were dancing around my legs begging for all the things in lispy voices, their hair…

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