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Today I am Tired and It’s OK to Tap Out

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / May 4, 2021

Today I am tired. And I started moving all my apps around on my phone but got tired of doing that partway through and now I keep trying to open Audible but instead, I open the Dunkin app which is now located where the Audible app used to live so my brain keeps getting excited…

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10 Books to Get You Reading Again

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / February 23, 2021

Reading during the pandemic was just hard for me. Having the time and quiet and concentration was tricky and my brain just didn’t want to take in actual words and books most days. There is actual brain research that supports that this is a thing and you may be feeling it too. No worries, I…

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Dear God I’m Coming in Hot

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / February 6, 2021

Dear God, today I am coming in hot. I’m wondering…how about just smiting my enemies? Even a little smite would be satisfying. I’m tired of people being mean and uninformed and crazy and all the things I clearly NEVER AM. I would like the person in the comment section of Facebook who just cannot even…

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All at Once it Happens

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / February 6, 2021

When your kids are little and you are in the middle of all the things you think it is going to be your life forever. This is just how you live now. You will always, always, always be caring for and serving these small people in a way that makes your body so weary and…

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What Other People Think of Your Parenting Doesn’t Matter

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / November 12, 2020

I used to think the fruits of my parenting labor would show up in my kids’ behavior. I’d have kids with clean rooms and good grades that used their nicest words with each other and would sit still in church, all lined up in their Sunday best. But then I tried to wrangle 5 humans…

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Here’s to the Awkward Ones, We Need You

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 21, 2020

Gather round loud ones, I need all of you who lay awake at 2:00am filled with worry about some random thing you have said or done to listen up. Coming out of quarantine living has made me as awkward as ever, that is just a fact. You could ask any one of the strangers I…

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You Are Loved

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 21, 2020

If tonight you are feeling discouraged. And like the demands of the world are just too much. If you’re feeling like you don’t measure up. And everyone else seems to be killing it at all the things, their houses are cleaner, their children have it all together and certainly don’t fight over the remote and…

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My Heart Wasn’t Ready for How This Feels

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 21, 2020

My heart wasn’t ready for how this feels. We went back to some in-person teacher work this week and here is my room ready with the desks spread apart, set for my dear teachers to join me. I started the first day ready to look on the bright side. I was ready to bring the…

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Our Kids Break Us and Keep Us Going

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 21, 2020

Our kids both break us and keep us going. They drain every drop of our energy and they give us life. They bring us to tears and make us laugh so hard we might even tinkle a little. We want to hide from them and also make them sit on our laps and never and…

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What is the Value of a Life?

By Amy Betters-Midtvedt / September 21, 2020

What is the value of a life? Of the person you love or the person you hate. Of the unborn baby or the person who just turned 101. Of the one who you agree with about all the things or the one, you cannot understand one bit how their brain works? Of the Republican or…

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